Addicted to Femdom? Try Sex dolls instead

Addicted to Femdom? Try Sex dolls instead

It all starts with a bad habit. Someone done occasionally, with barely any conscious thought. The darkness grow, like a tumor inside you. Witch each porn session, you become sicker, less healthy, more depressed and utterly broken

 It started off innocently enough, as addictions usually do. Experimenting with your sexuality as a young adult, you come across a few pictures and videos. You find them really hot and start to jerking off to them every now and then. From there you slowly widened your pornographic horizons and found and jerked off to increasingly extreme content. Bondage, pussylicking, strapon blowjobs, degradation and humiliation, strapon anal, threesomes, gang bangs, CBT, corporal punishment, human ashtray, among other things. Basically anything to do with hot women dominating and tormenting men. Sometimes lesbian domination just so you don’t even have to watch any men at all.

To get a more personal experience you might have turned to POV (point-of-view) content as well. Paying large sums of money to hire these pro-dommes to make your porn fantasy come true. So now the women were no longer dominating other men, they were dominating and humiliating you personally. Then you realized that some of these pro-dommes are on cam sites as well. You waste thousands of dollars on cam models that care nothing about you.

 

Gradually, paying these dominatrixes and femdom POV porn devoured all of your sex life. It was a lonely and miserable existence. You haven’t had sex in many years, this addiction has made you ashamed of and insecure about your sexuality. You find it frustratingly difficult to enjoy more vanilla porn and fear that difficulty will carry over to any sexual situations with women in real life. You also feel you are behind the curve when it comes to sexual experience. Most people your age are at least somewhat experienced and skilled. You are not, except at jerking off with sex toys, sucking on dildos, and using nipple clamps and gag. And since you are straight, you are not into guys so that dicksucking experience isn't very useful.

 

Sex Dolls are a safe alternative

To avoid the abuse or addiction nature of femdom, one must start to engange in healthy and practice good sexual activities. An active lifestyle, good and rich diet is only the first step. To feed the intense desire and sexual urge that all humans have, a porn addict must rid himself of the addiction and find a way to re-enter human society and the dating scene. Sex dolls are one of the safest ways to do this. These lifelike dolls do not judge, and they are always willing to listen your problems.

 

Falling back into the pit

You may resist and do other stuff for a while, but one way or another your horny brain will find a way to make you get back on your knees, looking up at videos of hot girls mocking and poking their strapon dildos at the screen. You've taken breaks for a week or two or three, especially when there's been other stuff going on your life, but when the horny brain strikes, it draws you back every time. You didn’t use to jerk off every day, but two to four times a day is now the standard. It’s all that you can think about.

 Lately your habit has gotten worse. Your jerk off sessions have rapidly gotten more and more elaborate, extreme and aggressive.

This quirk of femdom POV porn is especially important in understanding the vicious self-feeding cycle that is femdom POV porn addiction. The women in these videos bring up over and over and over again the "fact" that the person watching the video (me) is a "sad, pathetic loser who is unable to quit this nasty habit". This mocking and humiliation reinforce the negative self-images that already exist in your mind. When the mocking is paired with sexual pleasure, it makes this reinforcement process considerably stronger. With each orgasm, their message drills further and further into the mind - You can't quit, there's no getting away. It makes you weak. These women have you wrapped around their little finger and they are fully aware of it. They know many of their viewers are addicted. They know you are miserable and they love it.

 

Stop the abuse

 You must not allow yourself to be abused by some online dominatrixes or those who wish you evil. Unlike sadistic women, dolls and sex robots will never hurt you. No matter how much pain you are struggling with, a good sexy doll will aways be there to lighten your mood. You will have someone to cuddle with and someone to take care off. Become a human once more, instead of the broken down man that you have made yourself into to via femdom pornography and the dark evil of porn addiction.

 

 

Femdom can be lethal

Femdom POV porn is seriously a form of active brainwashing. It is abusive most of the times. The point-of-view aspect makes it so strong. The women in these videos are talking directly to you, not to another porn actor. Our minds are unable to differentiate between real life interactions and videos aimed at the viewer. As far as your subconscious mind is concerned, these women are real and really in control of you. They also have a habit of demanding the viewer to repeat self-degrading phrases after them: "I am your slave, goddess. I will suffer for you. I am your pain slut. I am addicted to your strapon cock, mistress. I am a cum-eating whore for you, goddess". Naturally, saying these sorts of things out loud works as a type of brain programming. Imagine a meditation where a person says out loud positive affirmations about themselves to hopefully become more confident and self-loving. This is the polar opposite and this is paired with the insane brain burst that is having an orgasm.

 

 

Over the years, your subconscious brain has learned that the way to that rewarding brain chemistry cocktail is dependent on getting ruthlessly humiliated and dominated. You need to feel ten-inch tall. You need to feel pitiful and disgusting. You need to feel out of control.

 This is also one of the ways you are afraid of this addiction, that it is affecting other aspects of life. You are frequently getting brainwashed into believing you are useless and inadequate. Maybe you have suffered from depression for a long time. This addiction is likely partially both a cause and an effect of your depression.

 

Where do you go from here?

 Ideally it is important to find a way to beat this addiction. It's been hindering your sex life and lowering your overall quality of life for way too long. But keep in mind that trying to stop or instantly get better is not realistic. It needs to be a gradual process.

But if you want to be able to enjoy other forms of sexual activity and porn, maybe it is time to give sex dolls a try. Maybe you’ll realize you don't even feel the need to completely rid yourself of this kink, but it needs to be a fun kink, not an obsessive addiction. You find dominant women hot and you might not mind that in real life, but when it's just you abusing yourself in front of a computer screen, that needs to stop. Maybe you need to try vanilla sex first. Using a sex doll can be a great transition back to that sort of traditional lovemaking. And after that maybe even a girlfriend. We recommend watching the movie Lars and the Real Girl, starring Ryan Gosling, which showcases perfectly how a real doll can be a great transitioning for someone who needs a little help.

Lars and the Real Girl Official Trailer #1 - Ryan Gosling Movie (2007) HD - YouTube

 

 

Begin the transitioning. If you want to be able to get off on more vanilla stuff. If you want to be able to engage in sexual acts with girls who aren't into femdom. You have way more options that way. And you want to be able to enjoy it when a girl wants to suck your dick instead of forcing you to suck hers. You want to be able to enjoy regular intercourse, you fucking a girl instead of her fucking you. You want to be able to enjoy sexual pleasure without pain and insane levels of self-degradation. You want to be able to enjoy cumming and not feel likeyou are a giant failure.

 

In this case, you must take the necessary steps. Slowly move away from femdom towards traditional sex and relationships. Instead of touching yourself, aim towards touching someone else. Instead of pleasuring your own body, try to pleasure another human. Or at least start with a realistic silicone doll or robot. The doll can also help when the urges come and the human-like sex doll will help you from relapsing. Such downward spirals can be dangerous. It is important to keep moving forward. Getting better with each step. If you fall back into old habits, things will only get worse.

 

 Be honest with yourself

 Whether you get a realistic sex doll or use other methods to rid yourself of femdom. You must make a strong and determined choice that this is something you actually want to change about yourself. Nobody can do this for you. It is only through your own will and dedication can you conquer your porn addiction.

 Regardless of the addiction, There are times when apathy sets in, and life you tell yourself it doesn’t matter,” you suck”, “You’ll never overcome this”, “it’s what you want”, “it’s to late for you to escape” all Lies. this action is activity damaging to our brains. To heal, you must want to heal more than you want to feel that fix. Not easy, but truth seldom is. Begin the process with a sex doll first. When the hunger comes, use the sex doll to have a sexual release. And with the sex doll or sexual robot, you can practice re-entering the dating scene. It will give you confidence and sexual stamina.

 

Recovery process

When the horny brain takes over, you must learn to turn to your sex doll. Eventually you will have girlfriends or booty calls, but for now a silicone doll with have to suffice. After all, beggar can't be choosers. The recovery process will be slow. Similar to drug addicts, you will have serious withdrawal syptoms. This is where a woman sexual doll can work wonders. They can safe you from doing something bad to yourself or those around you. Everyone needs a sexual outlet. But it is important that this outlet be a healthy thing.


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